Feel so defeated!

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I am feeling so defeated SH is winning and I just feel so defeated! I also feel so stuck like I can't move forward! I just need a push, a hand to hold and some encouragement from my SG family!

 
By JessicaC on Mon, 01-30-12, 12:55

hey! what happened? we were just talking and you said you were doing okay!

I was about to do something awesome again, but I told myself, "Enough is enough! That's plenty of awesome for one day."

"They say that marriage is about making two lives into one... nobody told me that meant we both would end up becoming HIM"

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By Princess on Mon, 01-30-12, 13:02

Well I am talking about this past whole week self harms been winning! I haven't self harm today I wanted to but that's when I reached out to you! But I just didn't mention I wanted to self harm.

I am a princess. All girls are. Even if they live in tiny old attics. Even if they dress in rags, even if they aren't rich, or are young or old! They're still princesses. All of us. Didn't anyone tell you that? Didn't anyone? I am telling you that!

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By JessicaC on Mon, 01-30-12, 13:12

I wish I could help you... I wish I could make you understand how important you are sweetie.

I was about to do something awesome again, but I told myself, "Enough is enough! That's plenty of awesome for one day."

"They say that marriage is about making two lives into one... nobody told me that meant we both would end up becoming HIM"

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By Princess on Mon, 01-30-12, 13:25

Well I thought I said how you and others can help me above! Give me some encouragement like you can do this I know you can, I believe in you, you are so strong ect... Say I am giving you a push and helping you along and I am holding your hand! Tell me your right here by my side! This is how you can help, people encouraging me like that really helps!

I am a princess. All girls are. Even if they live in tiny old attics. Even if they dress in rags, even if they aren't rich, or are young or old! They're still princesses. All of us. Didn't anyone tell you that? Didn't anyone? I am telling you that!

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By JessicaC on Mon, 01-30-12, 13:34

all of that is true. you are a strong person, you ust know you are. I'm there with you... do you still have that picture of me and my boys? feel that in your pocket and know that i am right there with you cheering you on

I was about to do something awesome again, but I told myself, "Enough is enough! That's plenty of awesome for one day."

"They say that marriage is about making two lives into one... nobody told me that meant we both would end up becoming HIM"

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By barri on Mon, 01-30-12, 15:16

princess , guess who ?? u no how i feel about u .. u r stronger and wiser then u think .. maybe your em is winning out or have i got it all wrong ?? is dbt tonite ??

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By female31 on Mon, 01-30-12, 15:32

Hi princess, you can do whatever you put your mind too. I am not here a lot and I do miss you. You are strong and I have all faith you you ability to move forward and be and do whatever you want

love
Rochell

"looking for a way out"

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By Suzee on Mon, 01-30-12, 20:10

HUUULLLLLOOOOO Princess!!! We were just texting a bit ago and I was going to PM you an apology, but since you have a thread here I will just apologize here!!! :0) I didn't see your text right away so I think I was too late in encouraging you before you went in!!! I am so sorry!!!

I know the past week has been really difficult and I hope you feel better by the time you read this reply!

Love you, Suzee

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By stanisz on Tue, 01-31-12, 11:47

sometimes it is darkest before the storm goes away and things get calm again. i don't know how to comfort you but to say don't give up with the battle, before you win the war you know? you may be bottoming out, have you considered that? sometimes things get worse before they get better. i just know God loves you dear one. and i care about your struggle. all my best and i wish you peace and know you are loved and prayed for. maria

...love and prayers and may the Lord Bless us All!

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By tools on Tue, 01-31-12, 20:04

Princess, I too have been struggling this week. Part of what caused my increase was changes at home. I
Was wondering if you might have had a change (good or bad) that could be causing your increase?

Diane
"...Send me half your angels. I'll send you half of mine..."

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